It's common to hear concerns about children's behavior in today's world. As adults and leaders in their lives, we need to recognize our role in guiding them. We cannot expect children to do what's right if we aren't actively demonstrating it ourselves. Children are keen observers and follow our lead. If we want them to learn the importance of helping others selflessly, we must show them through our actions. In this creative blog, I will share a personal experience highlighting the power of leading by example to teach children valuable life values.
A Memorable Adventure:
Today I presented a unique opportunity to impart a lesson while attending practical tasks. With the responsibility of transporting the children, I ensured my vehicle was in top shape. I took the children along for the ride as we embarked on a mission to get an oil change, go through the automatic car wash, and thoroughly vacuum my truck.
As we entered the car wash, one of the children eagerly offered to assist me with the vacuuming. We embarked on the task together, working as a team and making the experience enjoyable. The child's enthusiasm and effort were commendable, and it served as a perfect segue to discuss the importance of helping others.
Leading by Example:
Before continuing our journey, we took a moment to reflect on the significance of helping others. The children were already familiar with the concept, but I emphasized that our teachings hold little value if we, as leaders, fail to demonstrate it ourselves. I explained to them how taking care of the vehicle, regardless of ownership, is essential. By keeping it clean and well-maintained, we show responsibility and respect for the resources we use.
Teaching the True Meaning of Help:
A valuable teachable moment we occurred when the child who assisted me believed that he should be paid for his help. I took this opportunity to delve deeper into the meaning of help and selflessness. I explained that we should never expect something in return when we assist someone. If we have ulterior motives or wish compensation, it's only fair to communicate this openly, giving the other person the choice to accept or decline the assistance.
Creating Understanding and Values:
To illustrate this point further, I presented a hypothetical situation. I asked the children to imagine a friend needing $20 to buy groceries. I explained that they could choose to give the $20 without expecting it back or loan the money with the expectation of it being returned. By breaking down such situations and emphasizing clear communication, children can grasp the importance of selfless acts and their associated values.
In guiding children, it is paramount to lead by example and teach through actions. By demonstrating acts of kindness, responsibility, and selflessness, we lay a strong foundation for them to develop these values. Through the adventure of maintaining my vehicle, I ensured its upkeep and created an opportunity to instill important life lessons. Let us remember that our influence as leaders can shape the perspectives and behaviors of children, nurturing a compassionate and values-driven generation.